It's not weird that I, a 15 year old girl, have fantasized about being raped by an older man, amirite?

It's completely normal to have fantasies about that, tons of women do.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

no it's pretty weird

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Its weird but im cool with kinky ;]

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Psychologically unhealthy? Yes. Weird? No.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If you consent to rape, then it's not really rape, is it?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

who votes this stuff to the homepage?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Older men

by Anonymous 13 years ago

lol'd

by Anonymous 13 years ago

LMAO!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That's messed up! U wanna be raped?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thaaaaats fucked up

by Anonymous 13 years ago

troll?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

nope...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

o.... gross

by Anonymous 13 years ago

bet ur the same religious kind of person who judges everyone u dont know

by Anonymous 13 years ago

By saying that, that makes you a hypocrite.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

im saying i bet u r. im not saying u hafta be. but u automatically assume crap about me.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

what did i assume about you? and i'm tired of this convo, bye!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

that im gross bc of it. grow Up

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You're telling him to grow up when you fantasize about being raped? That doesn't make sense.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

what u said doesnt make sense.how does what i do have any indicator of my age? WOW.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You DO know that growing up is a different thing altogether than growing older, right?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

obviously. that wasnt what you were saying. wht im saying is, how does what i do indicate that im not mature. because THATS what ur saying.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

By my standards, fantasizing about having sex with older guys falls under "immature".

by Anonymous 13 years ago

ur standards need a reality check. having a different kind of sexual thought than u doesnt infer immaturity

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I have a right to my own opinion, thank you very much.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

get 2 know my situation then give me ur opinion thanks

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If you don't want my opinion, don't post on this site.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You won't fantasize about this once it happens to you...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Actually yes, a lot of people do. After an event such as rape there is such a wide range of reactions to have, including replaying it in a glamorized light.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yep. Post traumatic stress disorder. There ya go.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

But rarely if they fantasized about it befoer being raped. They realize how terrible it is. After being raped, it is not considered un-normal to have rape fantasies.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

its not like i want it to happen. i just think about it

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The very word, 'fantasize' makes it seem like you want it. Better wording next time, maybe?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It wouldn't be weird if you'd had like a nightmare about that, but FANTASIZING? That's weird.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I fantasize about that too ;)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

XD well then you're gonna get raped by Harrison Ford, and you're going to like it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I hope so :D

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Do fantasize about being murdered too?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Maddie Mary): nope...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Maddie Mary): Yes.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yes, at your age that is weird. Rape fantasies are normal, but t be having them at 15 means either you have been or are being victimized, or at some point you've decided the only way to get love from men is sex. That's really sad. You should talk to someone.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

actually, it might not be the rape part that you're fantasizing about, but rather the part about being taken advantage of, which a lot of people desire

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Exactly. Fantasizing about having little to no sexual control in a situation is not weird. What you've experienced/are experiencing is normal, and not inherently unhealthy. It is somewhat taboo--not in the least because you're 15. But that doesn't make it wrong.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah but not at 15!! Come on! Anyone that jaded so young has some serious issues. Her daddy or some other older man in her life is either not paying enough attention to her, or paying "too much".

by Anonymous 13 years ago

1st :/

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't have rape fantasys and i was raped at 15 by a guy a week after my birthday. The only thing wrong with me is that im sexually confused (as in i don't know if im gay or not) but having rape fantasies seems kind of crazy to me.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I bet all the "yeah you ares" are sicko pedophile men and warped teenage sluts.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No one said she was wrong for having the fantasy, just that she's probably fucked in the head in some way to be having it at that age, and that it's probably an older male authority figure's fault. I agree. Those are not normal thoughts for a 15 yr old girl.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What...The....Fuck.?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I had a NIGHTMARE about that. It was possibly the most scariest thing I've ever been through, and I've been through a lot. Even if I'm only 14. Haveing fantasies about that is just strange, I really think you need to talk to a shrink about it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

whoa, what an intellectual discussion we have now had about that. all i need to say is, this girl needs a boyfriend. fast.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

umm i had one. i dont need a bf.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

HAD being the key word.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Welcome to the real world, kiddies.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

if its rape then it wouldn't be a fantasy, but if its consentual it makes more sense even tho i dont agree

by Anonymous 13 years ago

it would be considered rape because u are legally not allowed to have sex until ur 16

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's not rape if you yell surprise, it's surprise sex.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

True. Also, did you know that 5 out of 6 people enjoy gang rape?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

this whole thing is so annoying, clearly you just need some attention.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i agree, and im the op :/ people just dont get it, clearly they think im in the wrong for this im not an attention whore, btw, if thats what ur saying. i honestly wanted opinions on this, and i guess i have my answer...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm aware at how old this is and you probably don't read it anymore, but... Rape is NOT a normal thing to fantasize about. I've been raped and since then have been utterly messed up with sex. I laid down beside a guy and had a panic attack. It's been years and I'm still dealing with it. Is it normal to fantasize about control and those sorts of things? Yes. It's ok to want someone to take control and do all the work. But that is not rape, that is S&M maybe, but not rape. Rape is not about sex and it is not ok to be wanting it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yeah, I've since figured out that I'm actually just a masochist with a domination fetish or whatever people want to call it. But thanks for the comment.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It still might be something to look into. I mean, it might be normal to have fantasies, but what you seem to be wanting could lead to dangerous situations. If that makes sense?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yeah, I know what you mean. I mean, I would only accept that sort of treatment from certain people, not a stranger or anyone who means real harm. And with the people I do that with, we have a set safety word if I get uncomfortable with what's going on. Is that the kind of danger you meant?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Yeah. Trusting the wrong person in a situation like that can be bad, but you seem to be smart about it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

i dont really think that is the rape maybe ur fantasizing about but maybeee getting hurtt so peeople will like feel bad for u or something?? idk just a guesss

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i dont want anyone to feel bad for me, do u read at all

by Anonymous 13 years ago

yeah i read... i was just trying to helpp, people are like saying ur weird i was just trying to help

by Anonymous 13 years ago

oh ok :/ thnks

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Is it rape that you're fantisizing about or is it the thrill of not having control in the situation? A lot of people think about things like that. You're 15 and your hormones are starting to flame up, so of course you're going to think sexually.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

idk it might be that. :/ idk. if u cant tell, im confused. no one evr says anything about any of ths crap

by Anonymous 13 years ago

well if you ever need to talk about it. feel free to come to me. i won't judge you or anything; i like to help people out.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

"i'm definitely a huge perv." IT'S A TRAP!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

lol if you knew me, you would understand. it's not in a creepy way, it's just i make perverted jokes alot.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That's what I figured. Everyone seems to make perverted jokes these days.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

always. it's the most fun. now if everybody loved to play video games, then that would be remarkable.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If everyone loved to make perverted jokes and play video games the world would be a happier place. It looks like the two of us already have a head start on everyone else.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

kinky

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thats..different..a bit odd. But if you want to be raped then its really not rape..more like..ermm.. S&M? Lawl, i dunno.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If everYone loved playing video games the world would be full of lazy peple who will soon become fat and soon wont be able to walk and so we humanity will be screwed ( i like video games tho)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What the hell?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The 3 sexiest guys in my opinion are Alan Rickman, who is 65, James Franco, who is 32, and Jared Leto, who is 39. I'm 14 and I fantasize about them all the time. :D Hahah. You're not alone.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's not rape if you like it. ;)

by Anonymous 13 years ago