The real blackpill is not about looks nor confidence. amirite?

Ah so... the way to have people find you attractive is to... have a quality that attracts others?

by Chance-Kale 8 months ago

OP really out here using many word when few word do trick.

by Limp-Trade-8550 8 months ago

It's not about attractiveness. I point out that being charming or not is an immutable characteristic, while being attractive is not.

by Itchy_Taste4003 8 months ago

You literally defined charm as the ability to attract, aka attractiveness..

by Pristine_Currency 8 months ago

I think they mean charm as in "smooth talking and good at manipulating people", rather than charm as in "attractive in a physically tangible sense".

by Anonymous 8 months ago

If I'm understanding correctly it sounds like OP is referring to charm as some kind of intangible, unlearnable attractiveness a person naturally exudes.

by Pristine_Currency 8 months ago

Too long, didn't read after seeing the words blackpill and looksmaxxing being used unironically. And you're 30??? Please go do something productive - this is why you are not seen as charming

by littelkellie 8 months ago

For men, online dating is almost entirely based on looks and status. No matter how hard an average guy tries, it is almost impossible to stand out. In person dating is far more forgiving but is dependent on having a personality.

by balistrerialain 8 months ago

What productive and intelligent insight you've brought to the conversation.

by Anonymous 8 months ago

They need to take some classes at the Derek Zoolander Center for kids who can't read good and who wanna learn to other stuff good too.

by Anonymous 8 months ago

I understand charm as a quality to fascinate and attract others. The most important quality to attract others is the ability to attract others. How circular of you

by Limp-Trade-8550 8 months ago

This is nonsensical. I'm guessing OP doesn't use wit or intelligence as part of his 'charm.' Jesus. Just word vomit.

by erika63 8 months ago

Wtf is a blackpill? What are you on about?

by bruce35 8 months ago

Starting a relationship is a combination of factors. Things like luck, physical attractiveness and social competency all contribute. Think of it like an equation ax+by+cz = d. If you're super attractive, you don't need to have a personality. If you're socially competent (funny, charming, wealthy etc fall into this category), you don't need to be physically good looking. If you have none of the above, you can be lucky and meet someone randomly in the store.

by Anonymous 8 months ago

Well, forget charm, just adopt a puppy. Far more effective and adorable, plus they won't cheat on you. Dogs: ruining charming guys since forever.

by Coltmcdermott 8 months ago