The current climate of treating women is if they're not human beings isn't helping. Women are understandably on guard. Consider this when you weigh your opinions on such things. I recommend networking through friends to meet like-minded people. Get to know them. If you feel a connection, ask them out.

by BandNo 1 week ago

Ignore what anyone says.Just be yourself and nothing more or less. People will see you humanity snd sincerity regardless of how or where you approach them.

by Suspicious-Hyena 1 week ago

Thank you very much for that my friend, I will try my best. I truly appreciate these words, god bless you and yours

by Anonymous 1 week ago

I get your point because meeting people can be hard and it can be like a minefield, especially in person. The reality, however, is that most people now date online first. If you remove yourself from that you remove yourself from a huge part of the dating population. Many women have turned to it because it's less scary to get to know someone from a distance. I met my husband on an app 15 years ago. Sure I went on a lot of bad dates with weirdos first but I met the right person eventually. Try being friends before you worry about being more. Culture has mostly moved on from just asking a random stranger on a date. Our only real choice at that point is to keep with the culture or hope to find someone else that is looking for something that many consider a bit more old fashioned these days. Just remember that you are the one making the choice to avoid the places that most people are looking to find romance. I'm not saying it's a bad choice but it is a choice.

by Anonymous 1 week ago