+50 Breaking up with someone via text/phone is more considerate, amirite?

by Deonwintheiser 6 days ago

Nah you need to give the person the option to handle it how they want. What if they want to bitch you out? Or slap you because you're leaving them for their bestfriend?

by Anonymous 6 days ago

This is literally from my personal experiences of being broken up with so I appreciate you not judging

by Deonwintheiser 6 days ago

I'm really sorry about your break up! I'm totally on the same page as you. I'd be a mess personally lol, and then I'd be embarrassed 😅 Again, I wish you all the best and I really hope you're doing okay :)

by Anonymous 6 days ago

Imo it depends on how long you've been together. If you've been together longer than a year, this better be something you have the guts and respect to tell me to my face. Sending a break up via text is just trashy, regardless.

by Anonymous 6 days ago

Non Face to face communication is always shallower than doing it face to face. Especially something like a break up. Sounds like you're just scared of having to look them in the eye and deal with the immediate consequences of how they react.

by Anonymous 6 days ago

I agree face to face is much more shallow

by Deonwintheiser 6 days ago

You misread. They are saying non face-to-face is shallow.

by Anonymous 6 days ago

Idk if it's helping people. That's just my preference. And it's inconsiderate here i am :) sorry you hate someone you don't know or understand. What a life.

by Deonwintheiser 6 days ago

no - it isn't. That seems like an actual unpopular one.

by Anonymous 6 days ago

Then why are we here???

by Deonwintheiser 6 days ago

There is a pretty big difference between text and a phone call for a breakup. In your ohsounpopular opinion, which is the better way to go?

by Anonymous 6 days ago

This idea that it should be face to face was decided by people who like to have a go at the person dumping them. The types of people that get enjoyment from having a dispute. Which ironically, is likely the reason they get dumped in the first place.

by Anonymous 6 days ago