This isn't even correct. For example, "a person in a mask mugged me the other day, they took all of my money." 'They' is perfectly grammatically correct, and necessary if I didn't determine the gender of the attacker. This is easy to research.
by Anonymous5 days ago
"the original rules" of this one word. Okay bud, or we could consider it a globally recognised addendum to "the rule"
by NearbySyrup59625 days ago
Dude, past a certain point, what even is the end goal of these hard rules? Language is built to convey information in an understandable, hopefully efficient manner. People understand 'they' singular almost universally as intended. Whatever goal the original rules had, it has assisted in reaching. Unless you exclusively talk with people about lexical history, it serves no other purpose to distinguish this other than semantics. And for that matter, 'they' singular is really useful for trans people, and there's no legit reason to take that away. Not sure if you're trying to or not, but it's a super weird hill to die on
by AppealNormal5 days ago
The goal here isn't to rewrite how people use language but to acknowledge its foundations. Singular "they" works and is widely understood today, but it evolved as a deviation from its original plural purpose. Language evolves, but that doesn't mean we ignore its roots. Hence, the unpopular opinion—acknowledging historical grammar rules isn't about semantics; it's about understanding where these conventions come from, even if they've adapted over time.
by Anonymous5 days ago
While I see your point, again, there's no real application for this hill to die on outside of lexical history discussions. Even in legal and academic documents, 'they' works even if the contexts indicates singular. The dictionary as adapted for the people living today disagrees with you. There's the facts of the origins of language, but then there's the facts of the world around it that matter at least as much
by AppealNormal5 days ago
Language does evolve, but exceptions don't "overwrite" foundational grammar, they adapt alongside it. Singular "they" is an adaptation, not a replacement. Its original use as plural remains intact. As for "thees" and "thous," those didn't coexist, they were fully replaced by "you," which singular "they" hasn't done for any pronoun. Evolution builds on structure; it doesn't erase it outright.
by Anonymous5 days ago
Grammar is constantly changing and evolving, sometimes it completely erases things and certain structures or words become erased. Sometimes it adapts and morphs. English language is an invention and fabrication in itself. It's the nature of language and grammar and syntax to change over time. To deny it is to have your head in the sand And they singular hasn't erased they plural it's just, as you said, built on it
by Anonymous5 days ago
They referring to an unknown person isn't an exception. It's literally the definition of they. Words can have multiple meanings.
by Key-Ant5 days ago
So you agree there is a secondary use of they. Literally just disproved your own point right there.
by Anonymous5 days ago
Acknowledging a secondary use doesn't disprove the primary one. Singular "they" is an exception, not the rule. Exceptions don't overwrite foundational grammar.
by Anonymous5 days ago
It's not either or
by Margarete245 days ago
You said it was "an indisputable linguistic fact" and then proceeded to agree that the secondary use is singular.
by Anonymous5 days ago
Words can mean more than one thing, ignoramus. It's not an exception. It's the 2nd definition.
by Margarete245 days ago
Except you can go somewhere like Meriam-Webster and see the various usages of they You need to understand words can have more then 1 usage
by Anonymous5 days ago
Apparently op slept through 3rd grade English. THEY just didn't get it.
by Anonymous5 days ago
The usage of "they" in singular has existed for longer than the usage of "you" in singular. I think that settles it.
by Anonymous5 days ago
"You" has always been singular and "they" has always been plural.
by Anonymous5 days ago
You are very confidently wrong 😂
by Anonymous5 days ago
Someone forgot to take their medicine.
by ConfidentDiver45205 days ago
"There's not a man I meet but doth salute me As if I were their well-acquainted friend" Shakespeare using singular they with a known gender (man).
by Anonymous5 days ago
Thats because They're and their are not the same thing my friend.
by Anonymous5 days ago
I'm not even English and I know that singular they/them has been a thing for more than 700 years. But according to you it's an "indisputable linguistic fact". Great job at being wrong though.
by Anonymous5 days ago
A dog was in my yard but I didn't see where they went
by Anonymous5 days ago
it... where it went...
by FeistyAmphibian58975 days ago
This is an indisputable linguistic fact Yes, the fact that you're completely wrong is indeed indisputable.
by Anonymous5 days ago
language evolves, English 50 years ago isn't the same as English now, I don't get why people can't accept that
by Crazy_Childhood5 days ago
In this case, people can't accept changes which happened before they were even born.
by SolidInvestigator8715 days ago
You seem very confident for someone who is wrong Back in the 1600s "you" also used to only be plural and people wrote how anyone who used you as a singular was a fool Singular they dates back as far as the 1300's
by Anonymous5 days ago
You are giving me the impression that you spend a lot of your life puzzled
by Anonymous5 days ago
I have no doubt that you're correct about that. I am not debating what "you" meant in the 1600's. I think we were talking about "they" in the 2000's. If you went through life using multi-century old language, I don't think you would be very well understood, and you certainly wouldn't be correct.
by Anonymous5 days ago
That's only one of about four different definitions of they….
by Anonymous5 days ago
their =/= theyre = "they are" my friend.
by Anonymous5 days ago
what are you talking about? i know. i never misused them here.
by Quigleykeara5 days ago
lol. Have a good night man. Stay in school.
by Anonymous5 days ago
They is plural, unless being used to refer to someone of an unspecified gender.
by Anonymous5 days ago
When you're so desperate to be a bigot that you forget basic grammar. "They" sentences use plural grammar but no one who knows English would ever say that you can't use it to mean a single person. It's probably most often used when you don't know the gender of the person. "There's a person at my door. They keep knocking."
by Anonymous5 days ago
Singular ‘they' has been in use since the 1300s. If you're such a stickler for pronoun usage, I hope you aren't using singular ‘you', which replaced thou.
by Anonymous5 days ago
I never heard anyone saying "They" is not plural.
by Anonymous5 days ago
Pay attention to what OP actually says. They are not arguing if "They" is singular or not. They are arguing if "They" is plural. No one is saying you cannot use "They" to refer to multiple people.
by Anonymous5 days ago
Yes. Obviously. Why do you feel the need to explain that?
by AskOptimal11195 days ago
It can not be plural, it can be plural. Depends on context
by Quigleykeara5 days ago
"where did your sister get to?" "They didnt say anything to me..."
by AskOptimal11195 days ago
Ask a linguist how language evolves, and consider that there may be a common plural and singular use of "they". Hooray!
by Anonymous5 days ago
I think that when 'they' is used as singular the third person present tense should be used as is the case in every other sentence that features a singular pronoun. They is on their way over - singular can prepare for one person. They are on their way over - plural break out the extra crockery. If they is singular it should follow the rules for singular pronouns.
by Anonymous5 days ago
This isn't even an unpopular opinion it's just an objectively incorrect fact
by Renekshlerin5 days ago
lol no.
by Anonymous5 days ago
If someone says: "they are working on it" for most people it means minimum 2 people are working on it
by Dbins5 days ago
The English language disagrees with you. Sorry
by AskOptimal11195 days ago
You're just wrong. Try using a dictionary. They has been used to refer to someone of unspecified gender for over a hundred years. So what you mean is, they is sometimes plural. And sometimes not.
by Margarete245 days ago
This has nothing to do with transphobia. It's a discussion about grammar and the historical usage of "they." Let's not mischaracterize the conversation.
by Anonymous5 days ago
Sure buddy
by Anonymous5 days ago
You guys are not making a nice impression when you fail to understand the point of the conversation and make it all about yourselves.
by meredith485 days ago
If someone refers to himself of herself as "they", I expect multiple personalities or some other disorder.
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