Ok, thats you. Is it a major inconvience for other guests to not wear a white dress at someone elses wedding? When its the expectation, and someone does it, it screams look at me I am also important.

by Anonymous 6 months ago

I agree in principle, but because it's already ingrained to be seen as super disrespectful, obviously brides aren't going to be happy about it, and they shouldn't be, it's a well known disrespectful action

by Hillaryswift 6 months ago

Agreed. It shouldn't be that big of an obstacle for a guest to go one day without wearing a white dress. That said, it's not about dress color so much as it is about disrespect and unkindness. It's almost certainly done on purpose to upstage or upset the bride. It isn't that hard to make a minor gesture to show kindness to a friend or family member on an important occasion.

by Serious_Plum 6 months ago

People disrespecting you is usually a big deal, especially at special life events.

by Crooksjulianne 6 months ago

See that's the thing, I don't see it as disrespectful. I don't see it as someone trying to upstage, nothing. I don't see the issue at all

by Mysterious-Voice-682 6 months ago

no if I'm getting married which is supposed to be my day no body better not be wearing white or even the same dress as me!! that's just how I feel tho

by Anonymous 6 months ago

As long as it doesn't overshadow the bride's dress 😬

by Jastkurtis 6 months ago